How a person can hurt you that much in less than a week. but, still Have Faith!

I know i believe him when the first time he told me how much he'd grown and changed.
But the fact is, he may have changed and grown, but not THAT MUCH.
Actually, i come up to realize that actually maybe its not HIM that changed, but its Me and My Understanding of relationships.
I know how it hurts when someone you love let you go so;
I've become more loving and tolerant
I've become more emotionally mature
I forgave him. And forgive myself.

"Have faith that the right one is on his way to you RIGHT NOW
Have faith that life has a better plan for you
Have faith that true love will prevail
You will feel happy and be loved by someone amazing 
But its not him. 
Before you find "HIM", love yourself even more and think that you deserve to be loved. "

Treat yourself the way you crave to be treated. Be your own hero, your own lover, and your own best friend.

Don't treat their leaving as a tragedy, don't treat their leaving as a thunderstorm that only rains down on you. Turn their leaving into a new beginning. Turn their leaving into starting over, into new kinds of love and magic.

I'm getting there , Getting the other side of you.

~Lesson Learned~

Sometimes, it doesn't matter who dumped or get dumped. It all comes down to who's bitter and who get better. 

Break up is not easy, it was tough but I survived. 

It happened slowly. I was getting better, finding ways to make myself happy even I don't have any idea what's going to happen next. No matter how or why it ended, it hurts. More than other people understand. The pain doesn't just go away because I want it to. But, for anyone who going through this, its going to be OK. Why? Because I am the living proof. Proof that time will heal wounds. People who knows me, will know how much I love my "EX" so much. But today, I am here writing this blog and never been this happy before. 

But its going to take some time. Everyone says that, and its true. 

What we need to do is Stop thinking about him, Stop talking about him. But instead, Start talking about Me, Start thinking about Me, Start take care about Me. That's the best path to move on. 

I believe everything happens for a reason. If its God's plan, just know that this hard time will get us prepared for a better time. Its a learning lessons that will be needed in the future. It may not make sense now, but it will, in time. 

Break up, is not something you need to regret about because it teaches us lesson. 

Things may not come exactly as what we planned but at least now, we have a better understanding of what we want and don't want for our next relationship. 

Broken Heart~

This is a good sign having a broken heart, it means we have tried for something. 

Broke up with someone you love, will somehow tear your heart apart. Instead of being sad, you need to buck up and face the truth. Stop thinking about him, because he's not thinking about you. If he is, probably your relationship wont end. Let your heart hurt, let your heart bleed, let your hear heal and let it go.

Keep on trusting God,  even when His answer is "Not Yet". He knows what you can handle and is using where you are to prepare you for where you're going(Hebrews 10:36-37)

There will always be people who dont love you even though they say they do. But it cant stop you from living and feeling loved. Be sure that there are people out there who will love you and never leave and hurt you. And when the time comes, you will be happy again. Just make sure, this time you have to keep them in your life forever.

Be the type of woman that pushes herself to get up, move forward and laugh at all the bullshit she's left behind. No point staying stuck in a hole, crying all time for someone that isn't crying out for you. Your life is more valuable than you think.

Hopefully, the next time i updated this blog, there is already someone i would like to keep forever.

Cheers.