~Lesson Learned~

Sometimes, it doesn't matter who dumped or get dumped. It all comes down to who's bitter and who get better. 

Break up is not easy, it was tough but I survived. 

It happened slowly. I was getting better, finding ways to make myself happy even I don't have any idea what's going to happen next. No matter how or why it ended, it hurts. More than other people understand. The pain doesn't just go away because I want it to. But, for anyone who going through this, its going to be OK. Why? Because I am the living proof. Proof that time will heal wounds. People who knows me, will know how much I love my "EX" so much. But today, I am here writing this blog and never been this happy before. 

But its going to take some time. Everyone says that, and its true. 

What we need to do is Stop thinking about him, Stop talking about him. But instead, Start talking about Me, Start thinking about Me, Start take care about Me. That's the best path to move on. 

I believe everything happens for a reason. If its God's plan, just know that this hard time will get us prepared for a better time. Its a learning lessons that will be needed in the future. It may not make sense now, but it will, in time. 

Break up, is not something you need to regret about because it teaches us lesson. 

Things may not come exactly as what we planned but at least now, we have a better understanding of what we want and don't want for our next relationship.